Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Arthur William Dear with the following comment:
Hello - I am researching my family tree and Arthur and Jessy Dear are my great great grandparents. I am working on this project with my Mum who is 81 this year (2019), Mum is giving me as much information as she can remember, mostly from her Mum, and I am using the Internet to verify and take the tree further back and provide Mum with evidence where I can of things she may not have seen before.